The Truth, in a positive way

It is very much important for the reader to know that how and what to say to the subject so that he may no get disrespectful towards you. Often it can happen while reading cards that whatever you see in the cards are not likely to be appreciated by the subject. But in that case what are you supposed to do? Are you supposed to speak the truth, the whole truth and nothing else but the truth, or you should convince with a handful of lies, knowing that whatever you are saying will never happen. In that case if you directly say the negative matter then being hurt he might stop trusting you, on the contrary if you lie to him he may become happy but slowly when the actual situation will encounter him, he will no longer be able to face it and will start cursing you in return. In such a situation you need to shoulder the responsibility with much sensitiveness and patience.

Suppose you see that a subject is sitting in front of you and is seeking predictions about his future love life. You see his cards and find out that he will not be rewarded by the woman he is looking forward to. But if you tell him on face then that will cause immense trauma to him, again if you lie then that will be equally unfair on his part and dishonest on your profession. So in such a situation what you need to do is tell the subject that he may be rewarded by the woman whom he is looking forward to but in future there will come more problems in their life and this may have a tragic end. You can also tell him in this way that she may reward your emotions but she is not the right woman for him in the long run. But if he remains patient then he is likely to meet someone in sometime who will be much a better match and they can have a very romantic and happy life in future. Thus by saying so you don't even dishearten the person but you also explain that it will be a clever act if he should not waste any more time on that particular woman. Instead he should move ahead with life and wait for the other perfect woman and by doing so he is just only taking care of his future. Now even after this if he wishes to stick to that particular woman then he may face problems in future but he will not be able to blame you and again you can explain him that why you advised him not to keep his expectations on her. Thus you remain honest to yourself and also you tell him the truth, but you also take care that he doesn't get hurt and can have a control over his situations.

The Hermit's Advice

Most of us remain busy in our day to day work schedule and often we forget to give time to ourselves. It is a very common situation which is prevalent in recent times as life is changing in a fast lane and we are in a roller coaster ride. But we should always keep this in mind that we are human beings at the end of the day and not any mechanical robot. Thus besides being so busy we should also know how to take care of ourselves and maintain peace in our mind. If we see that The Hermit card appears in our reading then we must not ignore it as The Hermit advices us to make out time for ourselves. By doing that we will be able to rediscover ourselves and we can again give a fresh start to our work. It is always necessary to know who we are and what we are in our own territory, in our own world. Unless we are sure of our being we can never succeed in our professional life. All of us we have a separate world of our own in which we feel ourselves, we get the chance to bring us more out of ourselves. Thus when The Hermit card appears in our reading we should understand that it is time that we should take a few moments out of our so called external world and get the benefit by making the best use out of it.

The best way to go deep into ourselves is by doing some meditation. It helps tremendously to calm down and also to get rid of all our stress. It helps in opening our inner eye to see the wisdom of life and to have an in-depth knowledge of the same. It helps in understanding the effect of consciousness and how it helps in dealing with situations. While in a meditation we are advised to breathe in fresh air so that our lungs get the clean and unpolluted air which is hardly possible in our daily life. By doing so we can get in touch with whatever exists within us and how that can enrich our mental state of mind.

Apart from meditation it is also advised that if somebody wishes to read some books based on the topics of their choice, then he or she must go ahead with that. By doing this at least he can relate to something which is different from his daily involvements. If somebody has anything in mind and wants to write it down then that is also a relevant procedure. Anything that has happened in one's life, any incident, any happening, any thought, any feeling or any thing else that he or she wants to pen down can be a way to get rid of the stress. What ever method some one chooses to, the idea is just to make out some time for ourselves so that we can look deep within us and reflect what we have in ourselves.